How to Influence Others ?

Influencing the Others

Most of us are willing to change someone, maybe our wife, our girlfriend, college, child. Thats everything fine but also very dangerous, less is it dangerous if you try to change yourself and also more effectively. Why to improve someone else when you can improve yourself, and that is only right thing to do. Why to influence someone else when you can influence yourself. The toughest fight is one within. People is possible to influence, and its named, human relationship. To be able to influence someone, you need to be able to control yourself. Influence is only possible with beautiful words, there is no possible way to influence someone with bad words, thats the fact. Because bad words are setting other people in defense mode and the good ones, of the guard. More good and beautiful words you know, more effectively you are going to be. Also the only possible way, is to make people that they wanna do what you want to do. You need to be honest, to give appreciation, compliments, every thing actually that we human beings are not doing, because the fact is that we are actually doing opposite. Direct path to someone heart is that we are honest. Influencing others is human skill like all others, that automatically means that if its skill it can be learned. And how does one learns the best ? Through out the practice, persistent practice. More you do it, better you will be. But I will here and now, aware you, that you're playing with the fire, because if people find out what are you trying to do, you can have problems, huge problems. Thats the reason I wrote, if you already want to influence someone, do it with yourself. If you try it, soon you will see that you actually can do it, that you already know how to do it, because its the skill you're born with. Thanks for reading !!