Human Characteristic - Judging Others

Human Characteristic - Judging Others

I’m not sure are people conscious about this society problem we are dealing here with but the fact is that somehow majority of the people lost the control upon they own lives. I’m not writing these to judge anyone the only thing I am doing here is speaking the truth and trying to help to others who are reading these, how one can actually heal himself from this disease. I do not know are you aware but did you ever listen deeply when you have conversation with someone. Did you every tried to noticed they words and did you ever try to look outside of the box, outside of the words just to understand what they are saying. The fact is that most of the people these days are judging others mostly because they got used to it, and mostly because they do not understand that in the moments when they are judging others they are actually hurting themselves, because they are judging themselves. There is simply logical explanation for this. In those moments when one is judging other human being he is actually looking at the things from his own point of view ( perspective ). Now I am going to explain what does it means. It means if one is judging someone lets say for his vocabulary or because of actions he does, hes is looking at those actions and on those words as it is he that is doing it. Thats the reason why he is judging him, thats the reason why he cant understand hes actions, hes behavior, hes vocabulary. That means that he is not able to do it not the other guy. We are talking about same principle when the people are saying to us lets say about our goals. When we try to achieve something out of the life most of the time people are going to judge us, typically saying that something like that is not possible to achieve. Also lets look back, they say it only because like already said they looked at the things from they own point of you, which means that actually they are the ones who are not able to do it, achieve it. That doesn't means that you are not able to achieve it, thats the truth. But to win against judging one should first look at himself in to the mirror and become conscious that there in the mirror is hes worst enemy. That there in the mirror he sees actually the only thing on this world he need to fight against. One should become aware that he is not perfect. Thats also one of the reasons why majority is judging, because they think that they are perfect. When one starts thinking that he is perfect, he actually quited to work on himself, stop'ed to improve himself. As such its really easy to start judging others. But when you are aware that you are every day doing mistakes, that you can every day do something different just to improve yourself even for a bit, one actually won against judging. Because in those moments one is actually looking at himself and hes aware of all mistakes he is doing. And only when one starts to work on himself, only when one starts to see his own mistakes he will quit with judging, He will not judge others anymore but on the contrary he is going to start judge himself because he knows, thats the only way how he can improve himself. Thanks for reading !!!