The Love As A Ultimate Form of Good
The Love As A Ultimate Form of Good
Good Day, first of all I wish you all a wonderful day. Forget on unhappiness, fears and be simply happy, smile and shine just like you are.
It really is so, The love is ultimate form of a good. The Love cant be purchased, cant be forced, cant be forgotten or lost. The most pure type of love is when we are having a child. The truth is, that we are going to do anything for that little thing, or when we are not able to do it, for sure is, that we are going to try it. They said that a child can come on the world as a mistake. That is not a truth. If two people decide, also I am thinking on male and female, that they are going to make love. They are doing it because there is a sparkle between those two. Only bad thing is, that people these days are not waiting that, that sparkle, get stronger, bigger and form in true Love. Also that means they already loved each other, and whola they got a baby.
Like I said, there was a sparkle and baby is just a product of that sparkle. Also product of love. Because of that, we need to take it slow with our children's. I know sometimes we are hard, harsh, we have lack of patience. But we do not need to be so, we need to love our children, we need to try to understand them. If our parents were bad with us, that does not mean that we need to be bad with our children's. If they yelled on us, that does not need to mean that we need to yell on our children's too. I think that talk is the best method to achieve something from our kids. Because when we yell, they are going to do it just because we yelled, if we get them in punish, they are going to do it just because they get punished for what they wanted to do. Its simply as that. Example: our kid wanna touch a wood stove, and we are yelling.
We do not need to yell at the kid, let him or she touch it. For sure is that they are going to touch it only one time and never more. Because when they touch it, they are going to feel a pain of fire. And because they felt a pain, they know for sure that they do no want to do it anymore, because they do not want feel a pain again. Every mistake for our children should be a lesson. Its we, its our fault, that we do not want from the first day when they are born, that they get hurt'd. But if we do not let them that they get hurt, they will never be able to learn, what they need to do and what do they not need to do. I am not telling that you should allow to your kid that he or she jump from the building of, I am talking about small things, things that they need to learn alone. And later when they are big enough, simply talk with them. With aggression we are not be able to do much. The only thing we can achieve with aggression is that they have fear from us. Why should they have a fear from they parents, its make no sense. Thanks for reading.
Like I said, there was a sparkle and baby is just a product of that sparkle. Also product of love. Because of that, we need to take it slow with our children's. I know sometimes we are hard, harsh, we have lack of patience. But we do not need to be so, we need to love our children, we need to try to understand them. If our parents were bad with us, that does not mean that we need to be bad with our children's. If they yelled on us, that does not need to mean that we need to yell on our children's too. I think that talk is the best method to achieve something from our kids. Because when we yell, they are going to do it just because we yelled, if we get them in punish, they are going to do it just because they get punished for what they wanted to do. Its simply as that. Example: our kid wanna touch a wood stove, and we are yelling.
We do not need to yell at the kid, let him or she touch it. For sure is that they are going to touch it only one time and never more. Because when they touch it, they are going to feel a pain of fire. And because they felt a pain, they know for sure that they do no want to do it anymore, because they do not want feel a pain again. Every mistake for our children should be a lesson. Its we, its our fault, that we do not want from the first day when they are born, that they get hurt'd. But if we do not let them that they get hurt, they will never be able to learn, what they need to do and what do they not need to do. I am not telling that you should allow to your kid that he or she jump from the building of, I am talking about small things, things that they need to learn alone. And later when they are big enough, simply talk with them. With aggression we are not be able to do much. The only thing we can achieve with aggression is that they have fear from us. Why should they have a fear from they parents, its make no sense. Thanks for reading.
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