True Friends

True Friends

These days everyone is saying that true friends is really hard to find. But lets be honest, true friend don’t exist anymore, maybe they did in the past but we are not living in the past. One can say “ Yes but my parents are my best friends !”. Are they really your best friends ? Lets see that facts. When the kid is young most of the time the kid is going to get everything that he wish, because at that point parents are afraid that something could happen to the kid. Also in those moments the kid is actually manipulating parents. Baby's until 5 years are like a kings, the have absolute power over the parents. That also means that they will is absolute. But as the kid grows, the situation change. When kid will do something, most of the time parents are going to forbid it, they will even try to set the seed of fear in that young mind only so the kid don’t do it. Also in those moments we can see that, what kid wants is not more so important as before and that these days parents actually are getting what they want, because they don’t wanna feel bad. Its kinda naturally. In those moments after the year 5 the parents are actually manipulators. And somehow they are getting everything they wish just because they can. That should be forbidden with some law. As we can see, because parents don’t wanna feel bad, they will look at they own kid how he or she are crying but main thing parents did get what they want. With the time the only thing that can happen is that kids are going to make decisions on they own. Also every time when kids don’t get what they wish also wan't from parents they are losing one part of themselves. More they don’t get it more they will lose themselves. Also one can say that parents are in those moments are selfish. But why is it bad to be selfish, they learn us that selfish is bad. Because they parents learn them so they can manipulate them. And so they are learning they kids. Its not bad to be selfish and to fight for yourself because you will always be good with yourself and you will always have your inner peace, that really rare thing on the planet these days. So next time when you wanna do something that you wish, don’t ask, just do it. Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe.