How to Win against Envy and Jealousy

How to Win against Envy and Jealousy

To live in the world where people are not envy and jealous about accomplishment of other people, seams like a most wonderful utopia. Also to win against those feeling is the only right thing one can do. Because they are going to poison our mind and with the time there is possibility that the hate is going develop itself within us and the hate is a one way ticket for hearth diseases. The most common question we can ask is, why even to be jealous and envy on someone who is living better then we are, who is richer then we are, who has more thing then we do ? The truth is that it doesn't have any sense, because everything they achieved in they life is a product of hard work. And how can you even dare to hate someone who is working harder then you. After all if you are working hard as he is, or even more as he is on some thing you love, there is a possibility that you are going to become more successful then he is. One of the facts is that they are not wealthier then you for no reason, the truth is that they are disciplined and they are working more then most of the people, they have goals in lives and wealth was only one of the goals they had. Do you have goals in life ? Most of the people don’t. And even minority that do, most of them are not chasing those goals, thats the reason why I said that you need to have discipline. You need to show yourself every day, you need to show that persistence. After all, the only thing you can do is to be happy for people who are richer and wealthier then you are, because if you are, there is a possibility that you will found someone successful in the future and if you let yourself to be influenced from that person, you can develop a better perspective, the one that brings much more then your own perspective in which you live at this moment. Also you could get a crucial informations which are going to shorten the way towards your goal. The truth is that you are not going to get those informations if you are not happy for that person, because if you are happy for him there is a possibility that you he will talk with you, but if you are not, then you are the one who does not wish to talk with him. Being happy for someone else is not only good way of thinking and the good act, act of a positive will, its also the act that brings happiness among you. If there is no reason to hate someone why should you ? Just because someone is more successful then you ? Do you think thats the right way of thinking ? Being envy and jealous, hating someone for his achievements you are only hurting yourself and thats not the way you should go. Everything starts with love, because only the love is able to bring the fruit among us. So next time when you see someone more successful then you be happy instead of judging or hating him, or to be the jealous and envy because of the things he got. Thanks for reading !!!

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