Truth about Complaining

Truth about Complaining

You know to, change your life, to change your way of living is never easy but its always possible to do. In today’s writing we are going to give a wide perspective on Complaining and how it can influence your life. My dear reader, the thing about complaining is that complaining on some person or on some particular things you are actually not helping yourself but you are instead of that actually hurting yourself. In those moments you are focusing on the negative things and only more negative you are going to see in your life, only more reason on which you can complain. The thing is that to win against the complaining you need to shift your perspective, shift the way you look on the things, on the world. For the start, when you notice that the situation pops when there is so many reasons to complain yourself on something you should stop in that particular moment and become aware of the thoughts you are having. In the moment when you are aware of those thoughts ask yourself a question, what this bad situation is trying to teach me, what can I extract from this and what is that one positive thing I need to see, I wish to see. Do you know what happened just now. In the case that you do it, in that particular moment you actually changed your perspective, you started to look positive on the life, you became a student, a student of life. No matter how bad things are there is always some positive which you can extract out of it, the real question is are you trying to see it, or you will allow to the negative flow of energy to consume your mind and your soul. Complaining is nothing else then the way of searching the excuses how to not do something you should do. Also it would be fine to know that the complaining is the enemy of mental toughness. So if you wish everything good for yourself and it would be normal to wish only the best for yourself, then you need to stop complaining. First of all because of your mental health and the second of all because if you are always complaining on something then you will always be powered trough those negative feelings. Why instead of complaining you do not find a reason to be grateful for something. Why not to change complaining for gratitude. You see if you change complaining for gratitude only thing you can except out of yourself, out of life, is more things for which you are going to be grateful. The fight is thug, and I am aware of it, because you are fighting against yourself or to be precise against you mind. But it brings so much in return. Do not seek for excuses, if you did not do something what you wanted to do then there is no reason to complain and look the guilt in someone else. The guild lies completely on you. Accept it and forgive yourself, forgive yourself from the bottom of your hearth, and be grateful that you noticed your mistake which you will of course correct. You know my friend more things you should do you do not do, more life problems is going to come upon you in the future. So attack that life within you, attack it with all your hearth and soon you will see how you are not only changing yourself but also your reality. Because on the place where excuses to not exist, the growth starts to grow, the growth in every aspect of your life. So the only thing I can tell you at the end, go in to this fight consciously and you will soon seen that there is nothing you can not do, or you can not be, or become. Everything on this planet and about the life is about the way of thinking and if your truly wish to change yourself then you need to change your way of thinking. Thanks for reading and God Bless You !