Why and How to RESPECT Yourself

Why and How to RESPECT Yourself

 

You know one of the most common problem these days is that we are always showing respect to others and almost never to ourselves. The thing is that even if you show respect to someone that doe not means that he is going to respect you and your opinion, that is the reason why you should respect yourself even if no one else is respecting you. But how to respect yourself ? To respect yourself is quiet simple tho because its simple that does not means its easy. To respect yourself you need consciously do what you think whats best for you even if its going to hurt someone else. The truth is that we human beings are egoist that means that we most of all love ourselves. It doesn't means that such way of living is a right one but that is the truth. Because of the fact that you are never going to be on someones first place then you need to set yourself on your first place. Lets take for the example parents and they children. Even tho I think that parents should control they children when they are young, I don’t agree that they should control they children when they are adolescent. How can you ever think that your child is going to believe in himself if you are not allowing him or to she that they do what they wish to do until the moment when you die. Is that right way of living, are you trying to say to me that you are loving your child or you are just loving yourself and making everything whats in your power so you get what you wish to have not thinking how you child is going to feel. As you can see, even our parents think on themselves from our early days. And what to think about the world in which we are living ? The only thing you can think is that your opinion is the most important opinion which you can have. That is the the second step to self respect the first one is self love. If you are always going to shut your mouth up and never say what your soul is saying when you don’t agree with others you are never become your true self, you are always going to be trapped in chains of your own mind. You should do it for yourself, because every time when you don’t do something you wish to do and you are doing something which someone else wishes you to do, you are being manipulated and as such you are only hurting to yourself, because with the time you are going to lose yourself and your divine connection with your soul. So why then even to do it. If you wish to achieve your dreams, the dreams you had in your childhood, then my friend theres only one voice you should follow and deep down within you you know which voice that is . And now, at the end, go outside and believe in that tiny little whisper within you, because that tiny whisper is the whisper which is making miracles, which is moving mountains, as as such for him everything is possible, because hes the part of the MAKER, he is the MAKER, he is your direct connection with divine and only when you are following him you are also divine. So never doubt in it, always do what he asks you to do, because everything he says is for the reason. At the end of the day, when you wish to go to sleep is it not better to have your inner peace, to know that you fight against the day and that you did your best then stay until late in the night not be able to sleep because you did something which you did not wanted to do !