The Road of Love

The Road of Love

Is it really hard too love? Yes, actually it is. We are always trying too find some mistake by our parter, because we are thinking that we are perfect. But we need too know that perfect human bean doesn't exist. It's really so. We need to know, that those mistakes, that we find out on our partner can destroy our relationship.

 We need to know if we are able too find a mistake, then probably our partner can find something on our self too. It's so. Because of that, we really need too quit complaining about every mistake we see. Ok he or she did a mistake, but you can't change it, its already done. We just need too leave it. We had a huge fight. 

Also we don't need to be quiet, we need to talk, try to find a compromise, because for every thing in relationship man can compromise find. Compromise ist crucial for healthy relationship. We need to apologize, we need to apologize if we are wrong too. Because sometimes it is better too apologize then not too talk few days or maybe week. Those silent moments, they are killing our relationship. With talk man can solve everything. But when I say with talk, then I'm not thinking on yelling. Yelling is bad.

Because if we are yelling, opposite side will yell too. 

When we are yelling we are directly attacking on a dignity and ego from another person. And we all know that offensive ist a best defense. It's in human nature an yelling too answer with yelling. We need too start, or try meditate. With meditation man can find hes inner peace. Man can release hes thoughts. Our thoughts are really dangerous, sometimes they can be so dark, that they make us do something that we are not willing too do. We need too learn how to control our thoughts. And that is only possible with meditation. Because when one is in meditation state, he is separated from his thoughts. Later with a bit practice man can differentiate thoughts. What does it mean ? 

It means that man can see what thoughts are good and what thoughts are bad. And that automaticly means that we are able too chose what thoughts we are willing to have. If we chose too have only good or positive thoughts, we need too know that reword is happiness, that means we are going too be happy all the time. I think too be happy all the time its kinda cool. Or if we chose too have only bad thoughts, that means that we are going too become really bad person in future. And with bad persons noone is willing too hang out. Because we are going too be always negativ. 

I'm personally not willing too hang out with bad people. Also we need too know if we arguing with our partner, we don't know what he or she is having in his head. Every man is not thinking the same. We need too try too set ourself's in hes or shes point of view and try too find out why is he or she acting like that. There is always a good reason when two people are fighting, but that doesn't mean that our fight is right, especially if we are having Kids. If Kids are listening those fight/fight's, they are probably going too have huge fights in future with hes or shes partner. It's so. Children's leran from their parents. Because of that meditate so you don't fight. And we need to know that best argument is no argument.

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